What It’s (Really) Like to Watch Smut with Your Partner
I have a confession to make: I don’t really watch ~adult entertainment~. I’m an erotica reader, plain and simple. Just like I’d rather read a book than watch a movie, 99% of the time, I’d rather read...
View ArticleSex Toys for Men: 5 Myths & How to Bust Them
Today, we’re going to talk about sex toys for men (and a little bit about the gender binary, natch). This topic came up while I was brainstorming with the folks at Lubezilla, who kindly offered to...
View ArticlePreparing for Eroticon, plus a Pre-Con Meet & Greet!
Thanks to SheVibe, on March 2nd I’ll be arriving in London for Eroticon 2017! The convention takes place March 4th-5th and features speakers like my dear friend and Eroticon roommate Sarah from...
View ArticleLessons from Eroticon: No One Does What You Do Quite Like You
Whew! I’m back from Eroticon, and I have to say, con-drop is real. I thought I could avoid it by going right to Lisbon on Monday, but I was dead wrong. If anything, I had both con- and vacation-drop....
View ArticlePeaches, Eggplants, & Tacos — Oh My! (Sexting for Newbies)
Sex is often likened to riding a bicycle, in that you supposedly never forget how to do it. As someone who rode a bicycle right into a brick wall just a year or two ago, I call shenanigans. Luckily,...
View ArticleWhat You Don’t Know About Vaginal Lubrication
Natural Lubrication – What is it? Vaginal lubrication isn’t just for sex, although that’s when most of us think about it the most. Aside from making sex of all kinds easier and more pleasurable,...
View Article3 Things Monogamous Folks Can Learn from Swingers
With non-monogamy of all kinds becoming less taboo, from swinging to polyamory to open relationships, there’s a lot to learn out there from some really amazing sources — like my friends at Swingtowns!...
View ArticleThe Opposite of FOMO Isn’t Being There — It’s Cultivating Abundance
Author’s note: FOMO is an acronym for fear of missing out, and was coined in 2004 by Patrick J. McGinnis. If you follow me on Twitter, you probably know that my plans to attend the 2017 Woodhull...
View ArticleFleshlight Guy, or Everything You Shouldn’t Do on a First Date
Settle in, kids, and I shall tell you the tale of My Worst First Date. Picture this: Me, young and fresh, a mere 20 years old and — this part is kind of important for what comes later — not a sex...
View ArticleLife Update October 2017
Well, it’s been a hot minute since my last post. Most — if not all — of you probably know that I relocated to England at the end of August. September passed in an absolute flash. In fact, I can’t...
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